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<\/p>\nAs different as we all are, it\u2019s amazing how similar we can be at times. We may eat different kinds of food, but we all need and appreciate food. We may listen to different kinds of music, but we all enjoy some type of music.<\/p>\n
Likewise, I\u2019ve found that at some point we’ll all be corrected by someone, and our response ends up being nearly the same. We don\u2019t like it. But not only do we not like it, our actual immediate response for the majority of us also tends to be the same. What I\u2019m referring to is the fact that we immediately go on the defensive and think about what\u2019s wrong with the one confronting us.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s true, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n
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I know this truth personally because I dealt with it not too long ago. I\u2019ll admit that I was being corrected by someone and that my initial reaction was to think, \u201cAre you kidding me? You <\/i><\/b>are trying to correct me<\/i><\/b>?\u201d My mind was filled with the flaws in that person\u2019s character and track record that caused me to want to discount what they were saying.<\/p>\n
The problem we have with being confronted or corrected by someone is that it indicates that we weren\u2019t perfect. As much as we may know we have issues, we certainly don\u2019t enjoy when people step in to remind us. We so badly wish we were perfect that, at times, we choose to ignore all those signs indicating we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n
However, when someone else<\/i> comes in and pokes their nose around our imperfection, then we are quick to acknowledge that no one is perfect – in particular, the person trying to correct us! So we gather the mental list of all the things said and done by this person which allow us to discredit what they\u2019re saying. After all, who are they<\/i><\/b> to be correcting you anyway?<\/p>\n
The good news here is that you will always find something wrong in these people. Always. Guaranteed. They\u2019ll be imperfect. And I will also say that sometimes their flaws really do cause you to question how you will hear and internalize what they\u2019re saying to you.<\/p>\n
The bad news, though, is that you may need to listen to what they\u2019re saying. Your initial reaction may be to flinch, like a young child getting a shot from a doctor. The whole situation may be uncomfortable and unsettling. But it may, very well, lead to a healthier you if you\u2019ll take it in and allow it to make you better rather than just making you bitter.<\/p>\n
But you may want to throw all I\u2019m saying out the window because, after all, look who\u2019s talking! I\u2019m not perfect!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"